The hard, frozen ground protects them so they can be the first to pop out.”
My father was definitively credible in my young eyes. Likely more credible than most any other source of information in my life, but this confounded my trust. The Nebraska ground was covered with inches of snow and ice and cold and the tulip bulbs that outlined the garden were a distant memory.
Decades later, I have an annual renewal of doubt that there will be a spring thaw. In the outside world, and in the interior one. On Ash Wednesday, I was confident that Easter conversion was just 40 days away. Fervor, confidence and commitment showered me with trust in the process. In the middle of the journey, it seems less clear. Like those tulip bulbs that I doubted were being nourished below the concreted layer of rock solid soil, there is a gravitational pull to discard the resolve and yield to complacency.
Melting the frozen layer takes time – the layer that has gotten less alarmed with the daily reports of violence – the layer that expects inaction from those with the power to make change – the layer that expects less personal connection in the midst of more digital contact – the layer that waits for God to act like the tooth fairy instead of empowering the human race to be more human – the layer that prefers to binge-watch instead of determining the next right step.
Melting the frozen layer takes time, but Lent removes the layers. I discover the twinge of knowing that something else is required of me. As the thaw takes shape, I see the disparity between what I value and what I do – and I know that those tulip bulbs will never pop through the soil, nourished and done with fallow time, — unless I shovel the snow.
This week, I notice the thaw of the heart and the awakening of my thinking. For me, it is the simple act of the next right choice – and to trust what I cannot see.
We had a big snow last week – not enough to invalidate the snow day calculator, but enough to delay, disturb and discourage the daffodils. As I walked along the driveway – I was reminded of the magical feeling I had on Christmas Eve as a few brave souls and a few good friends gathered in for midnight mass in the midst of a snowstorm. In December, it was magical – in March, it is something closer to misery.
Beautiful misery, but nonetheless – discouragement as the buds of spring are waiting to pop and the hibernation of all forms of the animal kingdom has nearly worn out its welcome. I was pondering all this while counting my steps on a trek through the building when a fourth grader stopped me with his piercing question, “I have a good idea for Lent.” “What’s that?” I posed as he joined me on my walk.
“Why don’t you tell all the adults to stop all the shooting and the shouting. For Lent. I think it would be a good idea and I think God would be much happier” he suggested with both clarity and definitive expectation.
It stopped me in my tracks. I wasn’t sure which topic to approach first – violence and his understanding of the world condition – or the fact that he had the misperception that I had any influence large enough to stop the war and start the healing.
I looked at him for a second before he darted off with a quick, “Thanks Sr. Bearss. See you at lunch.”
That was it – I was left with the prophet having appeared from the fourth grade and the challenges of March Misery-Madness haven been deflated with truth.
Lent offers us truth, but demands action. It is not enough to hear the challenges of the Gospel – they require something of me. I may not be able to stop the violence that plagues our cities and threatens our harbors of safety, but I can do something about the wars within my own heart. It is all about the eyes with which I see the situations that challenge me. From magical snows of Christmas miracles to the misery of what I don’t want to see in March. It is the eyes with which I see that creates the difference.
This week, for me, is about seeing differently – and being called to action.
Let us each be the one, like the Samaritan woman from the Sunday Gospel, who steps outside the box of conformity and expectation and dares to reach beyond convention to right action. Each of us will have the chance this week to fill the jar of someone who stands on the “other side” of the well – the only question will be if we have eyes to see beyond the constraints of our expectations